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Feng Shui – Symbolise What You Desire In The Children, Creativity & Entertainment…

With or without children, this is the part of the house that can keep you creative, provide childlike fun, and energize your youthful energy.

So maybe its not such a bad thing, that our bedroom is in the ‘Children, creativity & entertainment’ area of the bagua map…

If you are an artist or an author, look to the Creative area of the Bagua to infuse some creative energy or get over that feeling of having writer’s block.

Maybe this should be the area where I put items which symbolise writing. Because I want to write fantasy sub/spankee stories. I could get a decorative metal box, to keep my kindle in. As I want to self publish my stories on Kindle…

It can be beneficial to improve upon this area even if you are having family relationship issues, career problems, money problems, or health issues to make creative improvements.

I am improving my health through healthy eating. Sleep is a big part of being healthy. I need improved sleep. Just by moving upstairs, no dogs on my bed, no computer in the room, no dumping ground…Which is an improvement in itself…

Symbolize Your Desires

Oo! This could be fun…

My desires are to…

  1. Write fantasy sub/spankee stories to self publish on Kindle…

  2. Decorate & feng shui our whole house & garden…

  3. Create a tropical theme garden. I love the jungle effect…

  4. Create my indoor garden in the whole of our house, using every available space…

  5. Collect more crystals…

  6. Grow home grown organic veg, all year…

  7. Walk to get fit…

  8. Lose weight, improve my health…

  9. Get more energy & motivation…

  10. Walk in the woods with my little granddaughter & dogs…

  11. Spend more time in nature…

  12. Create a art journal…

I’ll start with 12 things I desire…

I have got a fireplace in my children, creativity & entertainment bagua map area. The element in this area is metal, fire element is destructive to the metal element, so I will need to use a cure. A cure could be a large mirror, but this is our bedroom, you should not put a mirror opposite your bed. So I’ll use a picture of water…water is destructive to fire, metal is a productive element to water…

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I have got a artwork of water, but as this is our creativity area on the bagua map. I am going to photograph my own water pictures…I could go down to the front & take photo’s of the Thames estuary, then collect some stones to bring back & put on the soil in my plant pots…

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That way I get the water element above the fireplace {Fire element} & I am symbolising my desire to walk & get fit again. I used to walk a lot along the front. Stones & photo’s from where I want to walk, is a good way to symbolise my desire to walk & get fit…

I need to keep my camera in this area too. As well as art & craft items…

It is going to be so much fun putting feng shui into action in our home & garden…

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A feng shui dilemma…

I have a feng shui dilemma…My Master bedroom is not in the actual ‘Master bedroom’ of our home..& it is in the ‘Children, creativity & entertainment’ area of the bagua map. I want our bedroom to be a quiet, relaxing, adult sanctuary, free of kids & pets…

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So I need some feng shui cures, but what feng shui cures…

Also marriage, relationships & partnerships is outside, when the bagua map is put over our house, both upstairs & downstairs…

I am looking to do the outside relationship area as a ‘feng shui’ garden. Which I can see from our bedroom window…& through the lounge patio doors…

The element is metal…The colours are white, bright & pastel colours – Check!

Metal beds squeak, so no metal bed frames…

Feng shui is about symbolism, so I need to symbolise ‘Children, creativity, entertainment’ in my bedroom as ‘Not in my calm, relaxing’ bedroom…

  • Art with a strong Metal element energy. This can be art depicting actual metalpjätteryd-picture-paris-1935__0485361_pe621491_s4 features, colours white and grey, or round shapes (the shape of the Metal element)

The Eiffel tower is strong, metal, is in the ‘romantic’ city of Paris…So symbolises ‘Romance!’ in our bedroom…

Also Jade’s dream is to go to Disneyland, so ‘Children’ is in there too. I’m sure my other children would like to go there too, but not as much as Jade, lol…

  • Art expressing the energy of creativity. Focus on finding images that represent (to you) the free flow of creative energy. Be mindful about the colours in your chosen art and avoid strong Fire or Water element colours in the West bagua area of your home.

Art which expresses us…We are into totally different things. Though I like horses too, but

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Desert Orchid…

in different ways. I worked with horses, owned my own, rode, broke my own horse in & schooled her…My husband is into horse racing, was once a betting shop manager. He named our youngest after his favourite race horse, well her 3rd name ‘Orchid’…but I love orchids…So we need a picture of desert orchid & orchids…That also symbolises our youngest daughter, Chloe. She also wants to ride & work with horse…sooo! Another good symbol of our creativity energy, our children, but not overpowering our calm, relaxing marital bedroom…

 

  • 3. Photos of your children or their art. Choose photos that evoke happy and joyful moments full of wonder and creative expression.

Except you’re not supposed to put those things in your marital bedroom. So they can go in the lounge down stairs, which is also in the ‘Children, creativity & entertainment’ area of the bagua map…

  • Earth element art. Choose art with a variety of landscapes, mountains, or sandy beaches. Creative images of soil are also a good expression of the Earth feng shui element.

Earth strengthens the metal element?…Which is the element in the ‘Children, creativity, entertainment’ area of the bagua map…

 

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Hmmmm! So earth is productive to metal, but metal exhausts earth. Metal is destructive to wood {My plants?} the bed? if it is a wooden frame? So no fire element? A balance of mental & earth. No water element? Except my plants need water…Like with most things in life ‘balance’ moderation…

 

  • Metal or Earth element items such as tall sculptures, decor items in Metal colours (white, grey) and shapes are excellent here. You can also use the shapes of Metal or Earth feng shui elements in order to further strengthen this bagua area. Avoid Fire and Water shapes in all your West bagua area feng shui cures.

Avoid fire & water…but must water my plants, lol…

 

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Feng shui metal board

 

 

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Feng shui metal element décor board…

 

I’m off to drink red wine with my friend Kim…

 

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Start telling the universe what you want…

I am interested in feng shui…& after spending time in my son’s vacated bedroom, clearing out the junk…OMFG! That room definitely needs cleansing. It is going to be my new bedroom. So I get to clear, clean, decorate & move in all new stuff…

I’m left wondering…Was I a bad parent, because I left him to it, to do his own thing? That bedroom has definitely got bad chi…Then I’m thinking ‘I should have gone in his bedroom to completely clean up, I should have asked for his washing’…My husband would go & clear his rubbish, dirty dishes, do his washing, wash his bedding. Me…I thought he was old enough to take care of his own bedroom…My daughters take care of their own bedrooms & do their own washing. Aka ‘laundry’…

New beginnings…

A fresh new start…

Attracting strong Chi, or feng shui energy into one’s home or office is very important. A strong, vibrant flow of Chi in your home (or office) will keep nourishing your personal energy, thus allowing you to focus on and achieve whatever goals you have for yourself.

I have set myself goals, but I have not ‘Feng shui-d’ my home. Not entirely. Not thoroughly. There is so much bad feng shui. Like broken lights, a broken dish washer. That is going in the skip. A broken oven. Again that is going in the skip…

I am determined to fix everything, but I have to learn how to nag. My Mum told me I need to learn how to nag. As in ‘I want that light fixed’…but…I don’t like nag’s…Nagging is just an annoying, aggravating, droning noise ‘No one’ listen’s to…One of my friends is a nag, everyone in her family seems to hate her…Nagging is not good. So no I won’t be learning how to nag. I’d rather just do it myself. Not that my mum was a nag. My Dad was the moody ranter, lol…

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I want to use every available space for storage, as my house is very lacking in storage space. Then again I could keep under my bed clear…but…I also have this irrational fear of something being under my bed, about to grab me. I watch to many ghost programmes, lol…

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I want to let go of the negative things in my life & move on, to create a fresh new, improved, relaxing future…With lots plants, writing, steering clear of negative people. I want to write fantasy sub/spankee stories to eventually sell on kindle, I want to grow a variety of houseplants, to eventually start propagating & sell…Time to let go of the negative clutter & create the motivation, inspiration, focus I need to reach my goals…both small, medium & large. Short term, to long term & in between…I am always evolving, just go with flow, but take along a paddle to steer my way…